Originally Posted By: Neilh23
I get that. We had the same sitch with coffee.... LOL....

she needs to learn to take care of own needs..and i need to be aware of those things.

my problem is, obviously, we're separated, and rarely do anything together.....i want to do those things..i understand the importance of them now.

are you telling me to just have patience? LOL


LOL, I didn't intend my ice cream analogy to be your answer, it was just timing. \:\) But, if it works.....teasing

M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.