WDID, Perhaps you have told this and I have forgotten, but have you been able to talk about your problem with the "feelings" for your H with him? I think your trip will help you if he is willing to step up to do whatever he can.
Sandi, this has come up before, an I believe WDID has made the decision NOT to tell him about her feelings for OM, or any new contact. Several of us vehemently disagreed with that, but I believe that's what she decided.
