he's one sneaky person, he tried to fish to see if MIL had told me (MIL tells me things in confidence and likewise), so if before I used to believe .5 out of 100%, I now believe .01 of what he says. And come to think of it, I dont' want to know anymore, the more I know the more I get mad, MIL told me that at the time I gave him the $ he was going to buy a house with her and she was going to rent her expensive condo (in her dreams in this market) but it fell through as she didnt' want the kids in the house and stbx actually said that was the point of getting the house, for a while they broke up, but now that she "almost died in his car" I'm sure his feelings have woken up for her even more, and also the knowledge that he's screwed up with everyone's lives around him, that's a very sad and sorry way to live.
I must detach detach and detach, I dont' want to know anymore, this man lives day by day on a whim.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
