Alien invasion 3.0

[hoosiermama]

Ok, here's a shot at goals--I'm still a little murky about it:

For R--
1. H will use common courtesies with me--hello, goodbye, please, thank you, how are you
2. H will offer to hug me goodbye
3. H will suggest or agree to a family activity--swimming, movie, trip to living history museum together
4. H will admit to R with OW
5. H will demonstrate an understanding that his actions have been very painful to me
6. H will be open to seeing our M as salvageable and worth working on
(okay, #4, #5 and #6 are longer-term goals!)

For me--
1. I will get 8 hours of sleep each night
2. I will choose healthy foods and lose ~2 lbs/week
3. I will find a new job with flexible hours
4. I will hang pictures, arrange furniture and clean so that my home is comfortable and reflects D and I
5. I will do one creative thing every week

So--am I on the right track? I could go a few different ways with this, so I just took a stab at one of them.