Bill - There are some similarities here. My IC thinks my W has something she's hiding from childhood. She claims her Mom was cruel but I just don't believe it. I think it's something else.
My W had done something similar in the car with my boys before any of this started - back in December.
Wow - That is very heavy stuff for a 16 year old kid - I will pray for him. Believe me - this is another thing my W knows is a deal breaker. If she says anything of the sort again or even hints at it, I am taking the kids to her parents and will deal with this with her family and whoever else we need.
You know what is terrible - the more I type things out here the more I realize how many mistakes I have made here and how weak I have been. I actually feel worse today than ever. I am going to be very strong about the next slip up on her part - I can't believe what I have let go on at home all because I was afraid to lose her. Right now i feel as selfish as she looks to me.
M 43 W 44 M 17 T 22 S16,12,9 Bomb 2/05/08 I served her 1/06/09 S'd 3/15/09 D'd 12/21/09
"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.