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Sawks!! STOP BEING SO NEGATIVE!!! LOL...


Lola.. I was being negative? \:D


Ummm yes...if a woman does not want you to see her naked, you won't see her...



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;\) You're getting there, and making great progress!!!

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Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Originally Posted By: LolaL
;\) You're getting there, and making great progress!!!


Well my co-worker just said to me, "hey your pants and shirt don't even fit anymore " ..was nice to hear..

and i know i should be a DB coach eh.... lol

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I wish I was having as much luck!!!


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Originally Posted By: LolaL
I wish I was having as much luck!!!


well i wouldn't call it "luck" i still am on the path to D, W has never stated otherwise.. all her (our) friends know our business and all of her clients.. so i am not too sure about luck..

My mom and dad sent her an email saying how they love her, and accept whatever decision she makes, and they hope we remain amicable etc.. I am curious if she will respond, i know she misses them...

I guess I am good at looking good on the outside, but it's the inside that needs the work, i am lucky in that way that i get to work on me..

what i wouldn't do for a hug from W

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I get hugs, when I see H. But there is minimal interaction right now, and it is brief. But he still hasn't brought me my pictures, claiming that he doesn't know where they are...


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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I get hugs, when I see H. But there is minimal interaction right now, and it is brief. But he still hasn't brought me my pictures, claiming that he doesn't know where they are...


I get SFA ... we live together, do minimal things together.. but any physicality is non-existant. When we sat on the couch, i was right against her the other day and she didn't flinch, but that's about it.

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Trust me, if she isn't trying to pull away, that is a really good sign coming from a woman's perspective. If a woman does not want to be touched, she will do everything to pull away.


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What would sawks and I do without the woman's perspective?


Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
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"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
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Originally Posted By: LolaL
Trust me, if she isn't trying to pull away, that is a really good sign coming from a woman's perspective. If a woman does not want to be touched, she will do everything to pull away.


well even grabbing the groceries, i made sure i touched her hand.. she didn't make any efforts to pull away. Also last night when we were playing with the dogs.. i sat right beside her, no movement. Now i either pissed her off.. or.? In the meantime.. day by day.
I can't see how she would change her mind after making such efforts to tell everybody

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