Thanks Lost, Kat. I know what I'm feeling is completely normal. And I'm starting to snap back, but it's just so hard. I don't know if W will ever do what I need to heal, and that's what scares me.

What if she figures it out and realizes she does love me and wants to make our marriage work but won't do what I need and then I'm the one that has to decide whether to settle for less than I want/need?

Stuff to ponder.

Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.