You read my mind - I was just about to ask NTE the very same thing!
IMO both NMMNG and Deida are vastly underread books and could probably have done with (from a marketing perspective) different titles. They should be compulsory reading for all men.
However, one (perhaps predictable) side-effect of reading NMMNG is that I absolutely cannot now bear being called "nice" by anyone!
Sorry for the hijack NTE - do let us know how you're getting on.
S&A
"A man can be destroyed but not defeated" - from The Old Man and the Sea, by Ernest Hemingway.
Which I take to mean that every man has within him a spirit of relentlessness and optimism. Its already there; he just has to cultivate it.