Did not e-mail but actually left her with printed copies. As for the abuse angle, there was one time when I blocked a door so she couldn't leave our room - that was the only time (not proud of that but it happened) and I backed away quickly without any physical contact.
I agree on the desperation. Her little plan has stalled many times and appears to be doing so again. This time with more possible ramifications.
Funny, she wondered why I could not be generous and think of her and the K's first and let them stay in the house. That was all part of her "plan" - her life stays as is and I go elsewhere. Sorry, but this Lost has the "balls to stand up to his wife" (you may recall she once said I was lacking there) - something the Lost of a year ago may not have done...
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No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.