WELCOME!!! Sorry that you had the need to move but I hope that you will find some peace and healing. There's tons of good advice and great people. I haven't had time to read your story yet but hopefully I will get caught up......
Plus, what you might not be aware of is that we have a tradition over here. Since I am the first poster you owe me a drink of choice.
So let's get this party started..........Long Island Iced Tea please!