Jumping in if I may, from my experience to much talk and laying it out even by the written word seems to cause more distance and strife. Until the one who walks away shows some interest in the LBS and a desire to know thoughts and feelings a genuine heart to heart doesn't happen.
I'm thinking a silent strength and sturdy stand like a fence would show and convey character and integrity that words would pale from.
JMO
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Me 48 X's vary S 27 S 18 Back with high school sweety after 30 years..
