[quote=SDFoundGirl
The key has been to refocus on me, to remember that no one owes me anything. I am my own worst enemy, and I am also responsible for my own happiness.SD [/quote]

Yep, happiness isn't something that comes ready made, it comes about by our own actions.

Glad you hear you're feeling better, SD. You had a backslide. We all do it. Dust off and get back on the horse! \:\)

And you will have to accept that your H will act like a comeplete horse's behind from time to time and get things wrong. Mine does. But then he goes and does something so lovely ... I try to push away all the bad things, we're all human and all get it wrong. i used to think there was nothing wrong with making a mistake as long as you didn't make the same one twice ... then I find myself making the same mistakes over and over and over again ... heck, i'm only me!

Carry on with your prescrption, missy ... loads of GAL, limit on the analysing, and at the end of the day ... just say "oh F*** it!" and laugh \:\)


Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05
Seperated Sept/Oct 05
Oct 06 - H recomitted
July 11 - I am now a WAW.