I Have A Walkout Wife = Part 11

[Jen_Jam]

I agree with 4Kids CM - just what will the letter to your W achieve?

She wants a D, which is against your religion so you say no. So the message she gets is your religion is more important than her. I am not saying that is right or wrong.

It is unlikely it will bring her back, more likely you'll get it returned with the words "give me my divorce!!!!" written on it.

But will it make YOU feel better with yourself? Are you feeling good about yourself? Do you need your W to understand your religion? Why? If you are happy with your God then why should it matter what she thinks? or anyone else for that matter? By being a Christian you are doing what you want to and it's not hurting anyone else, so why does it matter what anyone else thinks? Do you want friendship with your W? Why?

I don't mean to make it seem like I am attacking you, just provoking food for thought.

I know you are deeply religious, and I respect that, but I'm seeing a guy dogmatically following the rules laid down centuries ago in a foreign language which have been translated and possibly mis-interpreted over the years. This is why i told you to go look inside yourself recently. To hear what you would call the clear, small voice of calm. You're still looking to emails, the words of others to find ... what? I am so sorry if you feel attacked here, it's not my aim. I'm trying to help you feel the peace that appears to elude you. “Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without.”

What do you want now - don't write what you think you SHOULD want ... how would you have your life be?