As for #2, it will be interesting because in 2 weeks, we are meeting the good family friends I mentioned earlier (the ones WW went to visit and who do not support what she is doing). The friends happen to be the largest creditor on our liability side (provided funding for the condo purchase), so I am going to suggest they get a copy. They have said that WW has no reality focus here, so it wouldn't surprise me if they talked to her / us about all of this.
The desperate legal move - if it comes to that, I am prepared. My L has a copy of what WW is looking at. At that point, it becomes a business transaction. Not really much she can do to change the 50/50 split...
We clearly are able to offer more to our K's and ourselves together than we would apart - financially, together we are ok, even with WW having minimal income. Separate = downsizing (house is most valuable asset; WW wants to stay in but me allowing that means I go to a cardboard box...) considerably and closing doors for the K's that would otherwise be open.
Thanks for the comments.
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M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
well, not really...
