WAW is full steam ahead

[Scott123]

Also, my C said yesterday that the constant bringing up of her need for independence/separateness is a sign that she is still confused/struggling with the decision. That's good for me in some ways, I guess but it just makes the sitch all that more difficult to manage at the same time.

Hmmm, my W has also constantly brought that up. Saying she is
too independent, used to doing things on her own, needs to be
happy and wants to be alone, no relationships etc. yet is in
a new relationship so go figure. She is so unlike her true
self right now.

That makes sense though what your C said.

Sometimes I just want to scream "SNAP OUT OF IT ALREADY" but what good will that do.

Believe me I know exactly what you mean.

At least you actually communicate with your wife though, which
is good. Mine will hardly talk to me at all, plus I am dark
to her, which I am starting to think is a big mistake.

- Scott