Hey there! Honestly it was not my first card or letter to my H, so I have no idea why this one seemed to "get through" or if it even was the card itself.
Honestly, I've been a DB failure much of the time, so not sure I'm an example. But I also believe that no one knows our sitch or our spouse as good as us. So get your DB advice but listen to your heart too. Honestly, I did not originally feel it was time to give it, but when he told me he was filing the next day, I sort of felt like I had nothing to lose.
I think her noticing you at the gym was a GREAT thing! Keep your GAL up, and PMA.
Chris
I just kept it about what I was doing "keeping the faith, why I had faith, and that I was not going anywhere". I didn't ask him for anything, no expectations. Maybe that was the switch? I don't know.
Sorry if I sounded rude, when i asked for someone to answer me so i didn't feel like i was talking to myself :P
I am thinking about leaving a card of some sort for W before I goto Washington State for a week.. maybe drop something on her bed sunday night before i goto bed. Any ideas.. i was thinking something along the lines of " thinking of you" .. or something like that. " Hi W, I hope you enjoy your week. I'll be thinking of you from afar" ...
I am honestly not sure.. and whether i should or not.
Going to the gym together (smiling both times she saw me)
and then going shopping together and she even came into the TV room for awhile last night and sat right beside me on the sofa. Those might be good signs, but there is 25 miles left on a 26 mile track..
The gym has become my haven, it gets all my stress out, and I look forward to it each day.
On another note we dropped the price of the house today..
I was very much a DB failure the first month , then i discovered this site.. I know regardless, i am going in the right direction
