I'm so sorry. He's a certified d$ckhead...but that doesn't make the hurt go away, does it?
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I haven't responded yet, I'll wait until I'm a little more calm.
Do you need to respond at all, or is this a time to just go as dim as possible, and really hold to it. I'm afraid my memory is foggy; have you ever done that for a fairly prolonged period of time, or has it more typically been a short-term action that has served as your part of this painful dance with H?
What do you want to do? Are you feeling prepared to call his bluff and actually move forward with filing, or was that more part of the aforementioned p$issing contest(and with as big a d$ck as he seems to be, you ain't ever gonna win that one !!)
If you really are ready to follow through, okay...but don't feel like you have to because you spouted that off to H.
Doesn't mean you can't still set other types of boundaries to help you regain your balance, or say some of the things that I bet Puppy will suggest when he shows up...but you don't have to file if that's not what you want/are ready to do right now...
Your H's MO is so different from mine...and I really think there is still more to work with for you than me, partly because of your dynamic.
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