Hey there! Honestly it was not my first card or letter to my H, so I have no idea why this one seemed to "get through" or if it even was the card itself.
Honestly, I've been a DB failure much of the time, so not sure I'm an example. But I also believe that no one knows our sitch or our spouse as good as us. So get your DB advice but listen to your heart too. Honestly, I did not originally feel it was time to give it, but when he told me he was filing the next day, I sort of felt like I had nothing to lose.
I think her noticing you at the gym was a GREAT thing! Keep your GAL up, and PMA.
Chris
I just kept it about what I was doing "keeping the faith, why I had faith, and that I was not going anywhere". I didn't ask him for anything, no expectations. Maybe that was the switch? I don't know.
__________ Me:39 H:39 D:8 D:4 M:9 (T 13) Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08, Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09 Still doing GREAT a year later!!!