What is the worst thing a W can do? IMHO, have a PA.... Your W has done that..... No "unringing the bell" here...
I would just act "as if"..... Act as if it is over..... Move on... GAL... Make new friends.... Meet new women...... Broaden your horizons..... Do NOT worry about her.... She is caught up in lala land......
I am one who believes BIG TIME in M..... However, I personally think there are times when women have PAs.... You have to ask, "Is this the type of woman I want to be married to? Can I find a better woman with stronger character than my W?"
NMD
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret