PDT/mules..this is a difficult area. My W had a breakdown in November and at 930PM at night, I had her at a psychiatrist's office. Later, i was accused of 'picking the shrink' and 'setting her up'. This may backfire.

Be supportive and CAREFUL about this. She may feel attacked. If there is a moment or opening that is 'right', you may suggest that she may benefit from help. HOWEVER, the key to healing is recognizing you need help and SEEKING IT. You can lead a horse to water, etc.

After two years, my W is now saying that she doesn't want a D and is seeing a psychologist now REGULARLY that, in her words, 'specializes in this'.

Think, think, think first.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;