One question, you mentioned that this was expected to be your final MC session. Where did you leave things WRT that, and ongoing communication and M work?
Well, since this session was basically about the July 4 fiasco, we've got another appt. scheduled for 6 weeks later. I'll bring that up then. I also need to keep myself conscious and address anything on my end. You may remember the boundaries I gave H back in March, and one of them was if you don't tell me, it doesn't exist. YOUR responsibility for unhappiness at that point. So I'm going to hold him to it.
I can keep waiting for the boogeyman to jump out again. I want to get back to really living my life, and let H make whatever decisions he's going to make. I can't *make* him take responsibility for speaking up, but I also can't take on the worry of it either.
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Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
