I think Duncin is a fine name for a pooch. Have you bonded with him? I think you should try, since the w is liking him so much. Let her see how great you are with the kids, the dog, the house, etc. Give her one more thing to mull over.
The w is certainly conflicted, much like my h is. He is confused. I just don't know how much more of his confusion I can stand.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.