Thanks to everyone, H actually transferred the $$ so at break I will bite the bullet and get it done. I'm really sad about this, but theres nothing else I can do. He has put me in a no-win situation and so someone has to be the grown-up, might as well be me.

About the cards and stuff, my names not on them...I would just do it for spite - plain and simple!

M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option