((((Stellitsa-mou))))) I agree with SMW- don't bring up D unless that's what you really want. I think you'd have had a heart of stone if you hadn't had any response to finding OW still in the picture (did H confirm?), so your reaction was totally understandable. My H is also like K's- no mention of D. Just......nothing!
Take a deep breath and focus on moving forward. DB, DB, DB. You're going to do this and win!!