on AOL IM i put up song lyrics from a song that I feel describes my R with W....any thoughts ? I know for a fact that any lyrics or quote i put up, she would search google to find out what it was
Don't say anything to her about it.
Here's your guideline : 1. If she offers you any positive behaviour - take it at face value as an indicator that your efforts are helping AND that she still has doubt buried in her.
2. If she hurls negative crap at you, walls, hopelessness, insults, abuse...brush it off and keep fighting, she's hurt and when she opens her mouth it is hard for her to find anything to tell you that isn't laced in pain.
if its good : believe it - its rare for someone having an affair to be honest and compassionate
if its bad : ignore it - its just her conscience growling misdirected anger
