amazing that he speaks to her because so many of his songs talk about having faith and hope....LOL...oh well.

you have some good ideas and good plans going here. I would hesitate with the letter thing......i did the same thing...left a CD too when i moved....didn't quite have the effect i wanted. LOL.......Like it was with the letter i posted on my last thread...it might be great for you, but not for her. Might even go over wrong. Gauge your sitch when it happens......

One thing that i've learned is to not look for her to acknowledge outright some of your 'acts of service'...just do them. know she appreciates them, regardless. Act as if...

the 24 thing....my W has been hit by that, i think. her life has changed drastically, and i believe its starting to sink in. Hence, why she needed the space. LOL....i still have a long way to go tho.

keep it up......Act as if.... stay strong for your kids. and its' ok to have a pity party........... once in awhile...just don't dwell on it too much


ME:32 WAW:31
D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2
Together: 13 M:6
Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08
Sep legally: 6/18/08

"Tommorrow there'll be sunshine, and all this darkness past..."
-Bruce Springsteen Land of Hope and Dreams