So how can I best use all this to my advantage beyond the typical GAL type posts especially in relation to this OM?
]Well, I do think if I were you I would consider changing your status from single for one thing. I don't really think that is a good idea; yes, it might make your W jealous but how does that help your R? I don't really think it does. Jealousy and love are two different things I think. Plus, that could give her legal ammo if it comes to that, and that's something you should try to avoid.
My thoughts on reading your thoughts are that maybe you should be working on detaching more? You seem so focused on your W and making her do what you want. I think one of the major principles in DB is changing yourself rather than the other person. Have you read or reread DR recently? I would suggest that definitely. Anything Puppy has suggested is good advice too of course. Karen
