why shouldn't I have the benefit of at least some of the money my a$$ is swingin' in the wind for? It just makes me sooo damn mad that he is willing to blow it on his f*cking gambling and lend it to that fat, nasty piece of $hit he knocked up, but can't spare any to ensure that we aren't going to have a lien on this house? It just infuriates me to even think about it !
If he hasn't transferred the $$ by noon then I will swallow my pride and actually ask friend for it or even his mom, though that is not really a good idea.
It is horrible that it sounds like he is blowing the money rather than what he should, but I have a feeling that will continue. I think that's a good idea to set the time limit and then do what you have to do if he hasn't transferred the $$. I had to borrow the money also and hated to do that, but didn't have a choice so you do what you have to do I guess.
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I don't believe it for a second so I have decided that if he chooses to do so that I am going to report his credit cards as lost and his ATM card too if I can...lets see how much fun he has with no $$ and no access to any? Is that too mean? The last time H was in Vegas he dropped $10,000.00 in less than 2 days...any thoughts?
I esp. agree with this if your name is on the cards or there is any chance you might have to come up with some of the money he spends or be affected financially. Protecting yourself should be your main goal I think, and I hope you will!!!! Karen
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