Good man. Sheez, you sound like you are really on target RTL. You sound soooo much different than you did when you started here. I'm so glad you feel like there's a light at the end of the tunnel.
Your therapist is right that you should be careful. These situations act like slinkies sometimes. Push/pull, pursue/distance. There's no telling what she's really going to do long term. But it sounds like you are grounded and solid and level headed about it all.
Good. all good!
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