One light..much of what NMD says is true. The key now is to stop the analysis. Stop trying to figure it all out.

What happened is now part of your history. Remember, but, close the door on it and go forward. It was not failure but a lesson in life. Grow from it. The first line in the book The Road Less Travelled is "Life is difficult.". We all expect an easy road. It just isn't that way.

Close this chapter and open a new one. As my buddy frank_d says, "you'll be OK".

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;