SD..we parallel. I think that is just great. Thru my sitch, I had lost focus and financially, I held back on some little things. I fired the landscaper a coupla weeks ago to save money and know what?

I DID buy flowers and put them in the two front planters. I powerwashed the fence. I put weed killer/fertilzer down since the stuff the landscapers use did doodly squat. I had backed off from being in the backyard because it represented loss and failure to me. Today, it looks beautiful.

I'll miss my home if I have to sell it.

But...like you...I am taking back my life and REFUSE to deprive myself of the small beautiful things that bring peace.

Keep up the good work. I respect you. You've worked so hard.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;