Firstly I am so sorry that you find yourself here and in this situation.
Then, your question! Is it MLC?
Does it matter? Does it make any difference? If it is, then what? If it isn't, then what?
The problem is we are looking for answers, which only come in time, with hind sight.
I know, when I first set out on this path, that if it were not MLC, I could possibly turn the situation around. If it were MLC, then I had my answer as to what was happening to me.
Unfortunately with that answer, came the obstacles which impedes our progress, our growth.
We will wait this out, we will give them space, as a phase they are going through they will grow out of it. So for 3 to 5 years, we are doormats and walk on broken glass.
I know you want answers, but with that answer, comes great faith and great strength, and I wish you luck.
