Need Help with WAW

[Distressed67]

Do something, step back, observe the results, if nothing changes then do something different.

I guess that is where I am stuck. What to do different. I kind of am out of ideas right now. I feel I have changed myself for the better and just need to keep improving on what I have done but can't do much more.

Do you guys have any fun at all?? any lighthearted moments?

We sit outside together, go shopping, to dinner, take walks, I took her to a play a couple of weeks ago but it is all stuff that she likes. I prefer to do activities but she does not golf or play tennis. If we go to an amusment park it is with the kids and she rides with one and I go with the other.

I am hoping that once swimming for the kids is over we can do something on a weekend but will have to play that by ear. We are going to NY with the kids this weekend to see "Wicked" than off to my dad and the beach in New Jersey.

she's got a huge wall up. It's going to take a long time for you to knock it down. It's a brick by brick thing. She took forever to build it..deconstution goes a lot slower than construction..hell, a falling brick can kill a DAM.

Yes, I know. I try and tell myself this everyday and pray for patience everynight.

Continue what you're doing. Work with what you have.
Small talk?? then small talk her assss off. (just don't fix anything) let her figure that out.

This is what I am doing. The other day we were sitting out back and she brought us out some drinks. Its nice on our deck, nothing but farm land behind us.

sorry for the toothpick Hijack..I have to get him when I can..

230# and bench press 300..he's a lightweight..Cornhuskers are soft anyway.

Hijack all you want. I have read some of Racefans sitch but between work and home life I cant keep up with all of them. He seems to be where I am just that they are not living together. Not sure which is better or worse.