I catch myself laughing about this stuff all the time....That's a good thing, no?
I may not be laughing when the sun comes up though.
It's 3:30am & I just sent H an email. Since I already said this on Saturday;
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He tells me he's going on a trip Thursday-Sunday. I wonder what the connection is & ask if he's going alone.
He says, Yes, not that he has to answer that though. "Well, no, you really don't. If you are though, then I will proceed & file myself."
He was here to take S5 to dinner last night (extra friendly/lots of nice email during the day) & tells S16 he changed his trip to Cabo, leaving Friday- returning Monday.(OW has Wkends off) When I looked at him, he started telling me about different guy friends that are going to meet him there, etc.
Goes on a little too long & says he's leaving out of Tijuana, b/c they have non-stop flts.
I already knew, but checked anyway....three different carriers have daily morning non-stop flts. out of SAN.
I sent an email with some household info he needed & added that since I remembered that there are non-stop flts from here, I would need to see tickets or something that would explain him leaving from TJ.
If I had to do it over again, I would have left off "I'll file"
So, I have to follow thru with what I said my boundaries were. Another trip/vacation w/OW, especially with our Aniversary being on Sunday, is not tolerable for me.
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I do think that setting boundaries and sticking to them when tested is critical to regaining respect from your H. Just make sure that they are ones that you will really stick to...in otherwords that they make sense!
SD, It may be the end of my M & the beginning of his respect for me....it's unfortunate that I had to earn it this way ;-) Thanks for sending the luck & the support you do.
I'm prepared for the blow-back when he gets his mail today....can't feel bad about losing something you don't have.
