Everyone says time is on my side but sometimes the months go by and nothing seems to change. Maybe I am not seeing it but that is the way it feels. Its like a dog chasing its tail, I think it might be a pointless endever that will never produce results.
Do something, step back, observe the results, if nothing changes then do something different.
Do you guys have any fun at all?? any lighthearted moments?
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She is scared to open up and let me in. She has admitted to living this way so long that she does not know any other way or if she could ever feel anything for me ever again.
she's got a huge wall up. It's going to take a long time for you to knock it down. It's a brick by brick thing. She took forever to build it..deconstution goes a lot slower than construction..hell, a falling brick can kill a DAM.
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I take the friendship as a positive but she does not really tell me much about what she is thinking or doing. Its small talk about kids, family, the house and work.
Continue what you're doing. Work with what you have. Small talk?? then small talk her assss off. (just don't fix anything) let her figure that out.
sorry for the toothpick Hijack..I have to get him when I can..
230# and bench press 300..he's a lightweight..Cornhuskers are soft anyway.
Last edited by M from Tennessee; 07/15/0810:36 AM.
