well for anyone who is reading this.......MarkF and Puppy Dog are right. Affairs and OM/OW are like drugs....take it from me. I smoked weed for 5 years and that's ALMOST all I cared about. my wife smoked too, but not to the degree I did. I feel like I won't get her back ever because I changed all of these things AFTER she decided to leave....and that's probably a slap in the face to her. that's probably my only doubt about the 180's and changing me for me.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
