Is it MLC ?

[Peaches40]

Hi, instead of being in newcomers I have decided to post on her. A nice friend here said it maybe MLC. So I did some reading on MLC and it fits his age and all what he has said.

Does it last five years? He was great five years ago. Content mostly and devoted to my boys and myself. Now and for a the last few years I have seen a selfish (which he never was) and highly egotistical man. Right before his father died he started acting strange.

shaving grey hair off his body. Wanting to dye his hair. Kept saying I only have so many years of my life left. He quit his profession three times in the 30 years I have known him and done other things and went back. In the last three years he has been concentrating on this. The problem he doesn't see is that since he has quit its a small network of people in this business they really think of him as flaky because of this. So he has only a few clients and noone calls him.

Blame is me. Its all my fault. Justifies everything he does and says by never taking any responsibility of his choices.

Well finally tonight I got the "Moving out" speech. He told me to expect to loose the house and the truck. Don't care what happens to you. My reaction was you do as you feel you need to. Your friend has planed all of your life now. Which this women does. MY H is flaky. He always has said he is going to do something and never follows through UNLESS someone does it for him. Plus, he has lied to me so badly the last three years I don't believe him if he tells me its getting dark.

Well anyway this turns out its not good time for me. Starting new job and intensive three week training. From reading everything I know the key is me. I have done and applied the DB'ing. It helped me a lot. H is no father anymore. My oldest said only time he comes and talks is about him and his work. Never interested in anything else.

Not a good today and I am really in need of some peace of mind while I have to concentrate on work and having this going on. So does everyone think this is a MLC?

Peaches........