Let's just say that I have found out through highly confidential yet trustworthy sources that ow is feeling a bit unsettled by the time that stbx spends at "my" house... with his child... I just happen to be there but she must be thinking something else.. hahaha (evil laugh)!
Isn't it amusing that these OP got themselves into these situations with our H/W's and then have the audacity to expect them to be faithful to them? HUH? Honey, he wasn't faithful to me, thats where you come in, DUH!
People just never cease to amaze me.
BTW I love Theo's suggestion too. Its the little things in life, remember? Just do one or even two of these things and you will feel so much better. Everytime you see H you will just giggle to yourself because you are in on the secret...but they aren't! And if you get caught? Alls fair in love and war right?
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option