GF-no need to tiptoe, I've started to grow some pretty thick skin and for the last month you have been right. However since Fridays little scare, that is no longer the case. I am SO ready to file, but I really don't have the $$ to do so and I could ask my dad or even my friend, but damnit...why shouldn't I have the benefit of at least some of the money my a$$ is swingin' in the wind for? It just makes me sooo damn mad that he is willing to blow it on his f*cking gambling and lend it to that fat, nasty piece of $hit he knocked up, but can't spare any to ensure that we aren't going to have a lien on this house? It just infuriates me to even think about it !
If he hasn't transferred the $$ by noon then I will swallow my pride and actually ask friend for it or even his mom, though that is not really a good idea. As humbling as it is, we are barely scraping by on what I make and I just don't have access to the filing fee...I feel like a loser, but its really the truth, but you are so right. There is no excuse for me to not protect my kids and I'll do whatever I have to do to get that done.
I don't think you are insane, Queen of Patience maybe
H jokingly said that he is going to Vegas next weekend (the 26th) w OW - its her birthday. I told him quite calmly that if he chose to do that, then I would ammend the paperwork to a D and we would be done. I don't have a lot of limits, but this is one of them. He then said, "Oh really?" and when I said "yes" he backed off and said he was just "kidding." I don't believe it for a second so I have decided that if he chooses to do so that I am going to report his credit cards as lost and his ATM card too if I can...lets see how much fun he has with no $$ and no access to any? Is that too mean? The last time H was in Vegas he dropped $10,000.00 in less than 2 days...any thoughts?
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
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