I am sorry he is dragging his feet, but just get it done. Do what you have to do to protect yourself. Then let him sink or swim. Just don't sink with him!
I agree. 100%.
(((((((Corey)))))))
I'm going to try to tip-toe around this, but I might not be so graceful about it.
You sound an awful lot like me in the beginning. I made up a ton of excuses about why I couldn't or shouldn't...when it was actually wouldn't....file any papers just yet. "I gotta wait for this or that....H said he's going to do that and this first....It's going to happen when this or that happens.....Next week, I'm filing.....No, I mean the next week after that....."
Whatever I came up with, it wasn't good enough. You know why? Because regardless of what I felt, there just wasn't any solid, legitimate reason for me to neglect protecting myself and my children. Being afraid to go through with it was no excuse.
I know you don't want this to be over, and I think maybe you feel that it might be if and when you actually file, and that scares you. I know it scared me! And look at me now....3+ years into it. Either I really am the Queen of Patience or I am clearly insane!
My point is....it's not over, and it won't be for a long time, or at least until you decide it is for your own sanity.
Do the LS and let go. Now. And remember that it's not a D. Give yourself that peace of mind.
(((((((Corey)))))))
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
