SC, You've become something of a phenomenon (Cookie Monster)! Hopefully some of these Ms would be saved as a result of your efforts. Did you tell H he's an advanced DAM now (of course you taught him how instead of just walking away)? Keep up the good work.
Well, I guess it's either be blue & furry, or short, wrinkled, with hairy ears. LOL I'm okay either way.
I haven't told H the DAM acronym yet, so he probably wouldn't appreciate being advanced. I'll tell him one day.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
I'll tell him one day.