im back now too- i am so sorry...this pain must be very hard right now...but i think talking to his family, mother, OW BF is not in your best interest...it will create more drama for you to have to manage and problems that may get pointed at you...he needs to self destruct without the spotlight being pointed on you...you should tell your friends here , your other friends and family but not his mother or his family...

does that make sense to you?? just throwing ideas out there...

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