My sitch is in the friendship stage. We are getting along but nothing will progress until she wants it to. There is a thick wall that she has built up over the years to protect herself and it will take time for her to tear it down and to get her to trust me again, if ever.
Its learning to be patient and not try and make it go any faster that is hard for me. I tell myself everyday that it will take time and not to push anything. I am on her time not mine. Sucks but that is life. Better this than the alternative.
Thanks for asking.
Hey D, you're right, it is better than the alternative. Focus on you. Be as attractive as you can be. Try to think back to her complaints over the years, & do a 180 for those.
Hang in there. You are doing great with being patient.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
