It is amazing how H thinks things are fine while W is completely miserable. I just accepted things the way they were, but always wished for more. I felt my W distancing herself, but she never said she was unhappy. I didn't know how to stop her, so kept going down the cheeseless tunnels. That pushed her farther away. I didn't know how verbally express my feelings to her, so I wrote her the note. She dropped the bomb.
I think most of the problems we have come from a lack of communication skills, boundaries, and a true understanding of the needs of our S combined with a lack of true giving.
What are your thoughts on this? Do you agree, have more to add?
*HUGS* to the powerful YODA!
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
