H cheated and treated W badly. W worked as hard as she could to restore the M."
Couldn't agree more! When we had our second appt, the mediator spotted two questions I didn't answer on the petition (2 questions about the marriage not being repairable). I told her I didn't know how to answer them honestly and she said "Well, you don't need a divorce then". Hmph. Also, I am uncomfortable because we had to 'fib' about our last sexual encounter/separation time. But it won't change my focus, just made me feel odd.