I am very sorry!! Its ok to be sad, hurt, mad, the entire spectrum, and right now you may not even want to fix things but this is the time to stick to your guns. please handle your self like you have been and remember everything that you have learned. you may have a totally different outlook on this in a week and I don't want you to say I wish that i did not do that.
You know that this it not you fault and all the work you have done on your self is worth it, don't stop now
Me 27, W26 T-12 M-4 SEP 4/29/08 Holding 250 miles Awaiting Support Current
I think what I've done so far is pretty controlled. I should have outed their relationship to his mom and her boyfriend much earlier. I just wanted to believe him, despite my instincts. I am just devastated at the person my husband has become. I called my BF in the city and we cried together over it. She is his friend, too, and can't believe it. I can't call my family & wake them up on the east coast, plus I don't have enough info to tell them anything. I will be up all night, there's no reason anyone else should be, including you. I feel calmer now. Thanks for being there, so much.
Last edited by iamlost; 07/15/0804:13 AM.
It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb
becareful talking to his mother. I am sure that she does love you, and maybe ok having this conversation with you but she may not.
I am so sorry, I want to kick his !@# for you, and i don't want you to have to suck up this pain but I also want to try and keep you pointed toward your goals.
Me 27, W26 T-12 M-4 SEP 4/29/08 Holding 250 miles Awaiting Support Current
What is the connection to the hotel and the airport??
The hotel happened exactly a week before the airport charge, same girl, even according to him. Although the hotel was only for one night, it looks exactly like she flew in for the week, her family lives about equal distance to the airport.
It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb
god works in strange ways, I just got a call and my 6am meeting was cancelled, I don't work untill noon tomorrow and will sit here until then so, what ever you need!
Me 27, W26 T-12 M-4 SEP 4/29/08 Holding 250 miles Awaiting Support Current
I know you don't, but you will. I know this becasue you are strong, and his mistakes are not yours. they hurt you yes, but they don't define you. you will trust again because that is something that you can control. It will take a hell of a long time to trust him, but you will trust others, you trust me right, so theres a start.
If this was going to happen I am glad it did after you already started to find yourself and your own streagh. you know you can function without him, becasue you know you are strong. you will be ok!!
Last edited by JWS; 07/15/0804:27 AM.
Me 27, W26 T-12 M-4 SEP 4/29/08 Holding 250 miles Awaiting Support Current
I feel calmer now. Thanks for being there, so much.