I think what I've done so far is pretty controlled. I should have outed their relationship to his mom and her boyfriend much earlier. I just wanted to believe him, despite my instincts. I am just devastated at the person my husband has become. I called my BF in the city and we cried together over it. She is his friend, too, and can't believe it. I can't call my family & wake them up on the east coast, plus I don't have enough info to tell them anything. I will be up all night, there's no reason anyone else should be, including you. \:\) I feel calmer now. Thanks for being there, so much.

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