I don't know kat, but I feel the same way. I hated how my divorce decree says "irreconsilable (sure I spelled that wrong) differences have came between the husband and wife. Neither party believes that reconciliaton was possible..." Whatever! Yeah, we don't get along because he was/is having an affair and wouldn't leave the OW. I always thought we could get back together if he was just willing to end all contact with her. They make it sound like we had a little spat and decided we couldn't get along. I hate how the whole thing is worded because it doesn't say "H cheated and treated W badly. W worked as hard as she could to restore the M."

Hang in there kat. I haven't gotten enough sleep in 8 long months, so I understand.

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08