Wish we could be hanging out on my patio right now, with a glass of wine, beer, gin, or whiskey, good music on the stereo, a fire in the chimayo, good food, and the cadence of relaxed conversation.
Me TOO! Ya'll are cracking me up.
So nice of your wife to offer her assistance. What a pal. Just what you've always dreamed of eh?
Have pleasant dreams, lodo.
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence
I have boots alright but they're not for irrigating! I live in flood country this year remember? I am also very hurt that you don't remember my stall cleaning outfit, I don't know how a tool belt would look with that but if you insist...how's this? ya just gotta love them cones! plumber for lodo
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
<<BTW - all you guys make me laugh. Wish we could be hanging out on my patio right now, with a glass of wine, beer, gin, or whiskey, good music on the stereo, a fire in the chimayo, good food, and the cadence of relaxed conversation.
Wouldn't that be awesome !! With or without irrigation boots.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
yes, I'm going to take W up on offer. Not completely, but I'm doing her favors, why shouldn't she do me some?
I still don't get it though. Guess I'm DAM.
lodo
Well, you are splitting your lives so eventually there should be a clean break. Yet you still have this need for each other. I guess being friends or friendly with your EX isn't the worst thing to happen, but your next woman might have some insecurity issues with it. Whatever works for you is good, but a good 180 for you would be some tough love for her.
Thanks to all for the laughs here, it felt mighty fine!
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
For my part, the last 6 months was too erratic of a roller coaster ride. I guess I needed to come to terms with letting go on my own time schedule, not hers. And I've been doing that. She won't do anything with me (not that I ask anymore) and eventually the connection will die because friends need to do things together. I doubt I'll have much to do with her by the time I'm involved with someone else.
I don't know why she is so keen on these little involvements. Probably because she still relies on me in certain ways. Or maybe she's just trying to prove that it's easier for her to be friends than lovers?
As I've said many times, wish I knew what's going through her head. I would never have guessed that this is how 2 people are when they're divorcing. But I guess it is.
