I just found a hotel charge and an airport parking charge that my H made on his bank statement that gets sent here, arrived today, picked up my mail when I got back from my run. The hotel charge was for one room, 2 adults, one king size bed.
I just called him, and he's lying to me about it, denied both charges at first. Made up some ridiculous story subsequently. I just kept asking him to please tell me the truth, very calmly. He's supposed to call me back in 20 minutes, and he's supposed to tell me the truth then.
I am at a loss.
It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb
Breathe first, and remember that it is best to strike when the iron is cold. I know that it is impossible not to, but try not make anything up in your head, just stick to the facts.
all hotels default to two adults that does not mean that there were that many, could be 1 could be 4, point is you don't know. Since you have already called him, just listen to what he is really saying. it will be best if you don't talk. Either way, no matter what he says hear him out and then end the call. Don’t dig a hole while you are still standing in it.
Last edited by JWS; 07/15/0802:44 AM.
Me 27, W26 T-12 M-4 SEP 4/29/08 Holding 250 miles Awaiting Support Current
Just got off the phone with him, he is crazy and a huge liar. He finally admitted that he did get a hotel room with a girl, wouldn't tell me who it was but said that it was awkward and "nothing happened" but somehow he took her to the airport a week later. Liar. I'm shaking and have no clue what to do. I wrote the LDEA's boyfriend a message on Facebook, telling him I needed to talk to him, urgently. I need to find out from him if she traveled anywhere recently. My next steps are to contact his mom, I don't know what else to do.
It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb
It was on his vacation. Heartbreakingly, he made the hotel reservation the same day as he called me the first time he was away. I pretty sure it was her, and if it wasn't, her boyfriend deserves to know that his girlfriend was sending explicit e-mails to my husband. I also e-mailed his mom, I want to talk to her and let her in on what has been going on. She loves me and I love her. Heartbreaking.
It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb
